Men by Oprah and others (Email)

◦If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
◦Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
◦Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
◦Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
◦Slower is better.
◦Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
◦If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
◦Don't settle.
◦If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
◦Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
◦The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
◦Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
◦Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
◦Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
◦If something bothers you, speak up.
◦Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
◦You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
◦Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
◦Never let a man define who you are.
◦Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
◦A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
◦All men are not dogs.
◦You should not be the one doing all the bending; compromise is a two way street.
◦You need time to heal between relationships; there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
◦You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two whole individuals; look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
◦Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
◦Make him miss you sometimes; when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
◦Never move into his mother's house.
◦Never co-sign for a man.
◦Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
◦Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive of hurtful.
◦If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
◦Ladies take care of your own hearts...

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